#fmla

I recently returned to work after taking FMLA leave. Within my first week back, my manager began closely scrutinizing my schedule, availability, and office presence.

He asked me to specify my working hours, identify my usual desk location, and notify him whenever I sit at a different seat. He has also questioned where I am and made comments about my availability. This level of monitoring feels noticeably different from how things were before my leave.

More recently, I was verbally reprimanded for taking time off using my remaining PTO. On the first day of return from FMLA I did mention I may need to use my PTO and I gave him 3 weeks of notice for my PTO. He said as a new director (I was hired as an individual contributor) in the team, I should explain what happens to my projects when I take time off. That I should obtain his permission before applying for leave. That I should come up with a strategy and plan on how my work should be done and who should do it. I’m new to the team (6 months).

I explained that I already gave him a heads-up on my first day of return, and I'm an individual contributor, not a manager, and that I am entitled to use my available PTO. I understand that I have a responsibility to document project status, communicate outstanding tasks, and provide handover information. However, I felt that the conversation was more about making me feel guilty for taking time off.
He hasn't given me a great performance review this year.

The working relationship was already strained before my leave. Now I feel constantly watched, questioned, and evaluated. I dread going to work and find myself overanalyzing his messages and interactions.

Could this sudden increased scrutiny indicate that the manager together with HR is documenting to let me go?

I'm on FMLA and was just let go. I'm speechless.

Have a dying parent that I’m caring for. FMLA should be used for this but I am worried I’ll be a target when layoffs start again.

Am I being paranoid or is this a real thing? US based, 20+ yrs.

Does anyone know what happens if someone is on leave and is affected by a RIF? Like if they are on FMLA or maternity/paternity leave? I know they wait until you return to tell you, but does your 60 days of garden leave start then? Or is it already ticking and you just get the x weeks of severance? I know the garden leave is done so they can walk you out the door but also satisfy the WARN act.

I want to leave the toxic env.

Is applying for FMLA tge best strategy ?

want to leave the toxic env.

Is applying for FMLA tge best strategy ?

want to leave the toxic env.

Is applying for FMLA tge best strategy ?

micromanaged after FMLA leave ! Noticing a pattern.
So at my current BOfa job I was under some stress at home and at work and decided to take some intermittent FMLA time for stress. After 6 years of getting Meets or exceeds ratings when the Mid year rolled around in July and I was given a Partial Meets. Part of it was due to not meeting the in office day requirements vs remote days . I got dinged there.
Boss mentions that she was given an option to give me a PIP or monthly follow up meetings . She had understanding of my situation and felt I could get back to more productivity so I was told we would do monthly follow ups.
I started to notice I was given feedback like your completing the work but require follow up, Or your completing the job but these are the easier tasks. Or you are not completing things as fast as we want. This is due to being out on an FMLA day.
I'm also asked to submit summaries of How I plan to do individual assignments to the boss, something I never had to do in all these years.
Does this mean there is something going on here? If its no the dreaded PIP why is there this sort of scrutiny? Anyone else experience something similar?

Good morning, so I was just curious I’ve been with Centene for 4.5 years, this is probably the worst I’ve seen it… mentally and physically I’m drained! When say drained it’s not a joke, can we get FMLA for something like this? I’m in New York if that helps….

All top performers in my current company come back stronger after taking FMLA for looking after their newborns. Q management was too short-sighted and failed to view “being responsible of one’s household” as a transferable skill that benefits the company in the long term. One of many reasons why it descended so quickly. Q management are full of foolish people.

Serious responses only please

All, my family in a different state (non hub/a 3h flight away from closest hub) needs my help. I’ll need to be there for regular medical appointments and to help them at home. I’m retirement eligible but way too young to retire. I have young kids & spouse who doesn’t work but supports the home/kids/their activities. I think I can get another job & I’m somewhat prepared. But now when I’m actually in this situation & having to decide if I should quit to support my family, it seems daunting. They’ll need my help for about 4-5 months. I could start looking for work after that. I have just enough buffer to last that time.

Should I take FMLA? Unpaid LoA? Does ageism exist i.e. would it better to try to stay?

If asking for be on surplus, is it too late for the rumored Sept date? Shd I ask for Dec?
To make matters worse, my immediate supervisor was surplussed this last round. They’re still trying to find a spot for me & our team. Currently reporting to a “leader” who is at best unhelpful & at worst goes out of his way to kick people when they’re down, publicly. Should I go to the VP (who doesn’t know me at all) to ask to be surplused? My temp supervisor will highlight the worst option instead of being sympathetic or helpful. Any advice greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time.

Anyone been having issues with their FMLA being approved. I had time from 2 weeks ago pending and now my supervisor is saying i have attendance points.

I’ve been VTOing and requesting PTO in my IEX for the last 2 past weeks. Centene has really stressed me out. I don’t feel like clocking in or participate in my weekly team meetings. Supervisors and team lead states there’s nothing to worry about and to not stress. I call bullsh-t. They been on my di-k cause my stats/metric have changed recently, my AHT is higher than usual and I’m overly annoyed their slick a-s comments about my performance. Is anyone else experiencing major micromanaging issues? Enough is enough, at this point I’ve applied for FMLA because I can’t take handle the energy and fake empathy from my supervisor.

If you are laid off during medical leave (receiving STD benefits but no longer in the 12 week FMLA protection period), does the 60 day notice period start the day they call you or the day you return from leave?

After 25 years I chose to leave. I informally reported a hostile environment twice and then formally reported retaliation, discrimination and a toxic work environment using the proper channels that HR offers.

As a result I was impacted to the extent of needing to take a LOA. My manager remained protected through all of it! The investigators told each person that he interviewed that I filed the complaint and told them who I filed the complaint against. Speaking up came with a price to pay. How did that make the witnesses feel? Would you ever report anything again when you see what someone got away with just because if who they report to. My boss was oddly close to her boss - if I didn’t know better I would say they had a thing. It became a joke.

While I was on sabbatical I came back to retaliation that was so obvious a 10 year old could see it. An intentional overload of work, peers being promoted for no reason, direct reports promoted leaving me with less support and increased workload, rules that applied to me didn’t apply to others, a PAP that included backdated examples as far as months prior some fabricated examples and a final warning that couldn’t be validated. My manager continued to discriminate, retaliate and created a hostile work environment. Suddenly I had negative reviews just months after I informally met with HR. Was this all a coincidence? No! I was a high performer and I know what everyone in the org would say. The downfall is that my boss is so tight with her boss and our HRBP at the time that I didn’t stand a chance. Abusing your position and power seems like the norm. I requested my personnel file and they ironically left items out.

I won’t stay silent and I will tell my story because after dedicating 25 years of my life to that place I want YOU to know that Nike doesn’t care about you. It’s a job! If you left tomorrow they would simply replace you. HR and Legal aren’t there to protect you and speaking up only made things worse for me. For those of you that are being discriminated against, retaliated against or working in a toxic environment as a result of speaking up, document everything and protect yourself. Actively look for work and don’t give up. Use the FMLA resources if you are being impacted in a way that affects your health. It’s not ok but unfortunately you are simply identified by the number on your badge. When VPs support this type of leadership, teams crumble and lose credibility. Be part of the solution and get out. I didn’t leave my job, I left a toxic egotistical leader who got away with what she did up to this point because the VP that she reports to made her behavior acceptable.

You deserve to work in a healthy environment. No matter where you go there will be give and take. When you can see the lack of integrity and morals amongst leaders and VPs that you “should” be looking up to and your health is impacted - it’s time to get real and leave. There is life outside of the berm. Don’t let the fear allow you to settle.

Know your rights and know your resources (EEOC, EAP, LOA etc.) but more importantly know that you deserve to be treated with dignity and respect surrounded by people with integrity and morals.

If you are happy at Nike that’s great. If you have a similar story I would love to hear it.

How does being on leave impact notification if you are RIFed? Do they wait until you get back to inform you? Does the clock start while during leave or after you return to work?

This question is specifically in regards to maternity leave, so I have a firm return to work date.

I want to take FMLA to care for my mother with stage IV cancer. I have heard horror stories about positions being eliminated while on leave. Anyone have experience with this?

Today, I’m sharing a deeply personal experience because mental health in the workplace deserves more attention, understanding, and protection.
Over the past year, I have struggled with severe depression, anxiety, and panic attacks while navigating a difficult employment situation. The stress became so overwhelming that it ultimately resulted in a psychiatric hospitalization and ongoing medical treatment.
What has been most troubling is not simply the impact of mental illness itself, but what I believe was a lack of compassion and support while I was seeking help. During a time when I needed understanding, I felt isolated, scrutinized, and uncertain about my future.
For more than three months, I have lived in limbo while dealing with documented mental health conditions, significant medical issues, and concerns about my employment status. As someone who sought protection through FMLA and raised concerns through internal reporting channels, I expected the safeguards afforded to employees experiencing serious health challenges to be respected.
Instead, my experience has left me questioning whether employees with mental health conditions receive the same level of protection and dignity as those with visible illnesses.
Mental illness is an illness.
Depression is an illness.
Anxiety is an illness.
Panic disorders are illnesses.
No employee should fear retaliation, career damage, or loss of livelihood because they sought medical treatment or exercised their rights under laws designed to protect workers during times of crisis.
I have filed complaints with the appropriate agencies and am pursuing legal remedies regarding what I believe were violations of my rights, including concerns related to FMLA protections, disability accommodations, and retaliation. I will allow those processes to determine the facts.
My purpose in sharing this is not to focus on one employer or one situation. It is to advocate for employees who are silently struggling with mental illness and serious medical conditions while trying to maintain their careers.
If sharing my story helps even one person realize they are not alone, then it is worth it.
Mental health matters. Workplace dignity matters. And employees who seek help should never be punished for doing so.

Question? I was just about to put in FMLA paperwork. I know this is a HR question but does anybody know how these things work or how to place it and then do the VSP. Is it better to just put in the paperwork and hold out for the layoffs?

Just wondering: I remember an old coworker asking and I don't recall the answer. Do we get our 5 weeks vacation in the 2nd year of our 104 weeks termination pay? I cannot find the answer in our Leg T CWA contract. Also, I wonder if I can call in sick in the 103rd week of payout and then go on paid disability for 6 months. Would I need to file FMLA? Am I entitled to any more entitlements?

Someone on my team is on a family medical leave and a fellow coworker said that they could still be affected in the layoffs. Can someone confirm please?

Are you aware of this?

Can you access the link from your personal pc?
I want to do it, but I don't have the access to the network due to fmla leave

I ask out of place of genuine curiosity. It seems lots of people on my team are chronically out on leave. It's a revolving door of people getting pregnant, mailing it in 9 months before pregnancy, using your PTO, being out for 6 months on maternity leave, mailing it in the year after your baby, and repeating the cycle. Then others are FMLA/medical leave and seemingly work like 60% of year. There's no way 1/3 of my colleagues are getting surgeries or getting cancer diagnoses. Is there something I'm missing? Is the strategy to work yourself to a bloody pulp and go on mental health leave for weeks at a time?

I feel like this place is a state-supported jobs program for Minnesotan women.

I have been informed that my termination will take effect after my return from FMLA/medical leave. After 12 years of working with the company, this is the outcome. honestly,just feel relieved at this point.

I was undergoing cancer treatment and radiation therapy when my manager asked me if I could work three days a week and take a part-time FMLA instead of the full disability leave. This would allow me to regain my rhythm and continue earning commissions.

I decided that this arrangement would be beneficial for my morale and overall well-being, so I agreed. However, two weeks later, I was laid off! I had been pre-approved for the entire year to receive 90% of my pay and full medical coverage. Now, I will lose my coverage and have no job or income while I am recovering. I spoke to a few lawyers, but they all told me that I was in trouble.

I need some advice. I was recently terminated while I was on FMLA leave and also approved for short-term disability. I have all the documentation, including doctor’s notes and medical records supporting my leave.

Is a company legally allowed to fire someone in this situation? Has anyone experienced something similar or know what my rights are?

Any guidance would really help. Thank you.

So, they are using RIFs to specifically target FMLA and people on Disability.

Sure would be a great time to take FMLA for anyone that can. It puts your job on hold and they cannot legally release you during that time.

I wanted to know if I lost my EARNED PTO (currently in bank) if I either resign or am laid off? I am plannning FMLA leave due to care for my spouse after surgery then I will be resigning and should have some PTO banked. Will I lose it or will it be paid out in final paycheck?

I hear this company is constantly settling lawsuits with the EEOC and DOL through their poor management and businesses practices. The Spielberger Law Group is handling so many cases they may just start a class action. If you’re being discriminated against for Age (if you’re over 40) or being retaliated against after FMLA leave don’t wait to go to HR and start documenting the process. Then go to EEOC and DOL websites and start the claims. Then contact an attorney who specializes in employment law.

Need some advice I’m
Planning on going on short term disability due to treatment needed I know my role is safe up to 12 weeks for FMLA how about if my short term is extended to another 12 weeks , I understand I may not be paid but whatever about the benefits like my medical dental etc do I get it keep those and pay my current share of cost per usual

In 2024, every single person in marketing that took FMLA or Short-term disability was made redundant! Everyone!

Okta is not about talent it is about authoritarian obedience!

I work in downstream, was given a date for severance in april due to reorg. Managers said I could post out internally but if I’m not selected. I will receive my severance. I was out on fmla leave last week, then I get the news today. I was escorted out. Is it normal to have gcc, phone, laptop, GI card and facility access taken? How would I be able to apply internally? Or was it a way of saying you’re fired? I have a lot of people depending on me. Just looking for help. 36 year old. Been with shell 7 years going on 8, not no more it looks like. Lol

While on medical LOA that exceeded FMLA protection I was informed that my portion was no longer available for me to return to, and that once I was cleared by my doctor to return to work I would have 30 days of unpaid leave to find another position before being terminated with no severance.
Of course it's pretty much impossible to go through the hiring process at corporate in 30 days, so i ended up being terminated.
After filing for unemployment I received a letter from the Arkansas Division of Workforce Services accusing me of fraud due to my indicating that I'd been laid off, but that Walmart had reported me as having voluntarily quit.
Fortunately I had documentation proving Walmart wrong, but I'm curious if anyone else has had this happen to them and if there might be a pattern of intentionality here on the part of Walmart to try and avoid reporting too many "quiet firings".

Can someone tell me how FMLA works for management and non management? Are they paid or unpaid days?

does it mean layoff? if someone gets a ‘below expected impact’ rating, does taking FMLA or PTO offer any temporary protection, or could HR still move forward with actions while the person is on leave?”

After 13 years with the company i was unfortunately amongst the many who were layed off. I was completely blindsided . I am currently on FMLA and was given the news on Friday. I was told I am entitled to severance pay , or that I have the option of resigning and reapplying within the company . With the current hiring freeze and not to mention I would lose all my years … this just seems to me like they want to save them selves from having to pay me severance.