Thread regarding Wells Fargo & Co. layoffs

Don't buy into hustle culture

Been a quiet quitter my whole career if that means setting boundaries, putting my well-being and time first and recognizing I’m an expense to be managed by executives in finance. Work is a business arrangement-as long as I add value to the company, they will keep me, as long as they provide the money and benefits I find acceptable for my time, I’ll stay. But I expect no love and don’t give it.

I definitely “go above and beyond” during business hours, do my work with a high level of quality, treat coworkers with kindness and genuinely care about our customers, but I’m not putting in more than 40, not working in the evenings, not working on the weekend and not taking on additional responsibilities unless it fits with my schedule and available hours. I’m not going in the office more than 3 days. I’m not enrolling my phone as BYOD.

So not sure if that’s really quiet quitting or just taking care of myself, but I have never bought into hustle culture. I’m an SVP, so seems like what I’m doing is just fine.

I'm bumping this because I believe more people should see it. It was posted by @1mbg+1okTdXLr.

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Post ID: @1vxp+1osnA41d

My biggest accomplishment at Wells was to get my manager to stop saying yes to every ask from other teams.
Push back and say you don’t have the availability. Stop doing other people’s jobs for them.
Good work is only rewarded with more work.

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Post ID: @1fsg+1osnA41d

@1iwl+1osnA4

Well, now you know someone that didn't. I'm the worst networker in the company, and yet I've been promoted 4 times so far. Never got a job from a friend, coworker I have drinks with at the bar after work, or any other kind of buddy buddy relationship. Usually hired or promoted by a relative stranger and I'm generally anti-social. I'm the guy that would never ever attend an after hours social event that was optional. I'm here to work and am not interested in anything else.

Somehow, I've got promotions. It's not always about getting the hook up from a friend. I'm sure other people have done it that way, but I have not so it's possible.

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Post ID: @1sdc+1osnA41d

And that “someone they know” got them the job due to work ethic. Do you think people go to bat for those that do the bare minimum or less?

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Post ID: @1gbh+1osnA41d

@1cow lol. Every time I work with the "gotta work hard to get ahead" types they always wind up going to work at a job they got through someone they know. Save the preachy stuff for when you write your "How I made it, and so can you!" book.

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Post ID: @1iwl+1osnA41d

The only way to get ahead is to work hard.

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Post ID: @1cow+1osnA41d

I understand what OP is saying, but, in many teams the only path to a big promotion or great bonuses is working above 40 hrs, being available weekends at times and with all of that does come a trade off or sacrifice. And this unspoken requirement isn’t because some weren’t already great high producers and deserving, but it was/is the culture of their team or line of business.

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Post ID: @emj+1osnA41d

How is the OP lazy? Tell me!

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Post ID: @htk+1osnA41d

I think OP has their priorities in line. Put your oxygen mask on first so you can show up for others. Nothing selfish about that, nothing lazy about that.

I’ve seen too many people give their lives for their careers at great expense to their health, mental health, personal relationships and more only to get a pink slip when they get too old and well compensated.

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Post ID: @tlx+1osnA41d

Jordan Peterson has discussed the potential pitfalls of overworking. He has acknowledged that many who achieve significant success in their fields often work extremely long hours. However, working at such intensity can come at a cost, potentially leading to alienation from one's family, health issues, and other personal sacrifices.

I understand the OP did a poor job explaining the importance of finding meaning and responsibility in one's life, and failed to recognize that there's a balance to be struck.

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Post ID: @nxc+1osnA41d

Lazy

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