Nothing is more important than life at home. It's all you will have left when Cisco LRs you for no aparaent reason.
My marriage broke up for other reasons but being a workaholic means I own a home. And food. And enough money to retire. Which I did. I don't regret it.
At Cisco I learned the phrase "children of a lesser god" which described much of Cisco's culture well. Unless one's leadership has the power and the work to advance your career one is going to rot on the vine at Cisco. At any point in the past few decades, up until a couple years ago at least, there were always better opportunities if you were willing to put in the work to make the next jump. That was the only path to increasingly better skills and therefore money at most companies.
What is the solution to this P1 incident?
Realistically the rules are changing fast and being stuck at a weak legacy company like Cisco is a risk. If you have far more than a decade left before you can afford to retire you may have to confront a reality where you work your butt off and have less to show for it. Now is the time to be career focused and to live as far below one's means as possible, making prudent investments knowing the market is overvalued by many metrics.