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For High Performers

The worst corporate manipulation tactic I’ve seen is this…

Mgmt pushes u to your breaking point,
then shame you for breaking…

High performers are the easiest targets.

You absorb more,you try harder, you start blaming yourself.

When someone disrespects u, provokes u,or keeps pushing your limits, pay attention.

You adjust.You work harder.You overthink.

Until one day, you snap, and suddenly you’re “emotional” or “overreacting.”

But the breaking point isn’t the problem.
The situation was never sustainable.

So don’t internalize it.

It didn’t start with you.


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Post ID: @OP+1knp0q7x4

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@OP
Everyone believes they are above average

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Post ID: @n7+1knp0q7x4

Got pushed to my limit, told my lead and he said it was my burnout issue and I should talk to my manager. Oh, and also I can’t say I’m feeling anything (burnout, stretched, overwhelmed) because “there is no metric in agile to measure your feelings”,

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Post ID: @j6+1knp0q7x4

OP is referring to true high performers...not the perceived high performers who are just the boss favorites. We all know the difference.

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Post ID: @d0+1knp0q7x4

@bc the "hardest working" guy in one of my previous roles was chatting up big-chested ladies during the day and soaking up OT doing his work after hours. Dude was convinced I was the laziest coworker he ever had, even though by pure metrics I did the same amount of work as him. I was just efficient, which showed with all the downtime and available bandwidth I had. Our manager even referred to me as his "workhorse" while dude got angrier and angrier that he always saw me sitting at my desk, "surfing the net".

Dude quit from burnout after snaking project work from me, that I then had to clean up because of how poorly he had managed it. "High performers" aren't always the roses they think they are.

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Post ID: @bx+1knp0q7x4

@bc
Agree. Document and escalate calmly. Managers are looking for reasons to get to their 20% below meets every review period.

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Post ID: @bn+1knp0q7x4

And the inverse of this is that low performers are just allowed to coast by with little to no responsibility, up to and including not even monitoring if they are showing up for work as expected. Those do nothings are the reason life's been made so much more difficult for everyone else.

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Post ID: @bc+1knp0q7x4

What I've discovered....isn't that high performers perform high. High performers are the buddies of Mgmt who were recruited by them from JPM, Citi, etc.
No matter what you do, if you aren't one of them....doesn't matter how much you get done. Ever.

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Post ID: @b2+1knp0q7x4

Great description 👌 true.

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