@fm I can't speak for @em but I am @OP; I've been hunting intently for a job ever since the stack-ranked IM I got in January. Prior to that I was more selective, because I've been here since before the turn of the century. I've outlasted every management team's bad decisions, worked with wonderful people, and been though more reorgs than anyone should ever have to. The current level of micromanagement is sociopathic. It's obviously designed to make everyone miserable and give executives a reason to get rid of employees.
I fit the target profile of someone who would be laid off under the current combination of location strategy, term-length, and age. On top of that, this executive team has been threatening me with RTO (lol, nearest core loc is hundreds of miles away) and location strategy since they got hired. Why shouldn't I hold out for that golden PTO package that I spend more than a quarter century giving years of my life, parts of my kids' childhood, and probably a chunk of my physical and mental health earning?
I like my manager, I like my coworkers, I like the work I do/did. It's above my manager that the sociopathy is present.
Sure, it may not have been comfortable this past 7 years. I have tried to make an exit, but why ruin a good thing? The benefits package is hard to match coming in as a new employee, and I knew it was coming, all I had to do was keep putting out good work and wait. Now it's finally arriving (after two false-starts, mind you).
If you knew you were going to win the lottery, but had to wait a few years to do so, would you throw the ticket away?