I just want you guys to know the state of everything. My management chain kept promising me promotions if I just "did x and accomplished y" for 3 years. I finally got fed up and forced an answer instead of staying polite and deferential. My manager told me "I keep bringing you up during calibration meetings, but people aren't convinced you're ready"
I had to escalate all the way to a meeting with my manager and their director-level boss. That's when the director told me straight up, in front of my manager, "I have never heard your name come up even once in a calibration meeting"
When I looked at my manager after learning this, they said "I never made any promises."
After that, my manager tried to give me an "off-track" rating on 2 behavioral categories. I questioned the ratings and asked for an explanation or guidance on how to improve, and I got nothing.
Again, I escalated to the director and then magically my ratings were changed a week later.
Then I escalated all this to the VP of our org. I told him how my manager always tries to hide issues, I told him how I wrote up an incident report because my coworkers were not doing their work correctly. My manager tried to hide the incident report but I told him I would not stay quiet. I sent the report to his skip-level who thanked me profusely. And then next thing I know, the coworkers who I reported ended up getting moved off my team and promoted. While I stayed in the same place. And I trained them. So the people who I trained got promoted past me while I stayed stuck.
The VP of our org said "this depresses me, but it's really hard to fire people" even though I never asked about firing anyone.
This company is a sh-t show and stole years of my life from me. But also taught me extremely valuable lessons about professionalism and advocating for myself. I'll be MUCH more aware of this kind of organizational dysfunction for the rest of my life. Now I know how to see the signs.