I put in 35 yrs with the Bells & Verizon, missed many meals, events, Holidays & birthdays. The most disturbing things I see is failure to maintain plant & disregard for customer service.
I see talk about gearing up for younger customers, making the company leaner & lack of caring for employees as new issues. This crap has been going on for the last 30 yrs, ever since the company stopped making everyone learn the entire phone business. College hires were put on 4 year programs that allowed them to learn the business from the ground up, not just what was taught in school. Everyone benefited from that because management had a real idea what was involved in doing the job &I how long/hard it is to do something. In other words they were forced to see the human side of the business.
Once they started to hire directly into management positions understanding or caring what humans had to do to keep the business going faded. That is when they started to dehumanize workloads & establish unrealistic/stretch goals. I would bet no upper management person would be able to explain how the plant works or how it gets built or maintained. Before I retired when I would ask upper management to explain how something worked or went from a idea to reality the answer was always , I was not hired to make things work or know how they work, I signed on to make money. In my opinion this was the start of the failure of large companies to understand their business, what the customer wanted & what it takes for a company to provide good service, keep both customers & employees happy.
While this is not helpful to those of you going through this painful time in your life, I can only hope someone reads this & thinks to put this "new" idea into practice.
My thoughts & prayers will be with you. I've been retired for 15 yrs & have never missed it nor went back to work as a vz contractor as most of my peers & underlings did.
One last observation don't fight each other (wire/wireless) work together to get treated properly & to keep employed. Infighting only helps those who are looking at you as a expense & not a asset or a human.