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Some parts of WFH are not cool

Working remotely permanently had been my wish ever since my managers started calling me back into the office. There was no possible way I would suffer through hours of commuting to feel awkward in an office again.

My wish got granted at the beginning of this year. In the beginning, I was basking in the sparkly allure of freedom. Oh the possibilities! I could work anywhere, at any time as long as I get the work done. What a world!

However, with time came getting used to my situation. Even in the best possible world, your brain is always seeking something better. Although I really, really love remote work (please don’t take it away from me), I’ve noticed some things that make me sad about it. Here they are:

  • it feels like I’m living in Groundhog Day everyday. Every single day looks exactly the same
  • I feel like someone who has just retired. I had all these dreams about what I’d do when I had more time. And now I do. It feels like a retiree trying to finally write his great American novel and not being able to get a single sentence out.
  • It’s hard to make friends as an adult

I can’t move out bc I have nothing determining my location

  • I have an unstable schedule
  • A lot of these problems are discipline problems — it’s hard to build and maintain discipline when you have no one to enforce it for you
  • It’s extremely hard to be friends with your co-workers. You have to go out of your way to reach out and be available. Friendships don’t happen “organically” like they do in the office
  • It’s hard to determine how to spend your time in a meaningful way. Should I write on my blog that no one reads, should I practice my stick-figure drawing skills, should I create new projects that no one will use
  • Extremely busy jobs looks appealing - My partner’s surgery rotation looks so exciting and full and life (and death) even though he wakes up at 4am and ends his day at 7pm
  • You sit on your a-s all day and even walking around so your legs can get some circulation requires discipline

I have solutions to a lot of these problems. I just don’t always have the mental strength to actually use the solutions. And the weeks when I slip feel like I'm falling.

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Post ID: @OP+1hRybza3

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You actually cannot work from anywhere, even though you have been granted the right to WFH, if you move and do not tell your manager you will be let go.

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Post ID: @2rkl+1hRybza3

90% of the jobs at the company requireme some kind of office work, OP is crying because he voluntarily chose the 10% and doesn't like it. Boohoo. I've been WFH for years and kicked @$$ at it. Now I waste hours every week driving to a mostly empty building so I can do email and Skype from there. It's the d-mbest thing ever and I hate it and those pushing it.

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Post ID: @2bni+1hRybza3

Sounds like a lot of bi----n for someone who won the lotterru

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Post ID: @1tme+1hRybza3

HOWDY, PARTNER!! 🤠

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Post ID: @1iuj+1hRybza3

I always dream of a peaceful job like yours, but no hope for me....... because H1 workers are highly skilled and we have to train them to be so.

After complete their training, they will have to show they are the top dog.
Then we are usually the dog meat.

Unless everyday after work, we pick up new math and tech to wow the management. They will "force" us another year to train H1 workers.

Then the cycle repeats, ......or if unlucky me, at another job.

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Post ID: @1rja+1hRybza3

Still lucky to have your co-workers located with you? Great!! For many all the RTO means is getting the headphone on and talk with offshore folks or somebody in the “hubs” at the West and East coast. Sorry OP to see you were finding it difficult to work remote, there are always options to work all days of the week from office. Good luck!!

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Post ID: @1prv+1hRybza3

Ah...ignore some of these Debbie Downers. Work from home isn't for everyone and actually requires certain kind of work. I love working from home but I do notice a couple things that are a little tougher that requires more attention. In the office I would develop a ton of relationships and networking. A majority will brush it aside because they are probably very silo'ed in IT or something. However, there is something to be said about Jamie Dimon's comments about if you want to hustle you need to be in the office. I've met a ton of senior leaders in the office that I know wouldn't happen remotely. Sometimes it's as simple as just showing your face or being in person for a meeting. Some may laugh, bit that's how you work your way up

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Post ID: @lfs+1hRybza3

I don't think this is real. Regardless of where you work, you have to meet the requirements of your job. This sounds like someone who should be worried about their job, not how to fill their day with non work-related activities.

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Post ID: @zdn+1hRybza3

OP - From reading your "manifest", I thought I would reach out and help you begin a novel by giving you your first two sentences: "It was the best of times. It was the worst of times."

You take it from there.

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Post ID: @rnk+1hRybza3

There are a ton of materials available; broaden your knowledge.
Improve your abilities in a current ability while learning a new language.

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Post ID: @zlb+1hRybza3

You would be bi-----g even louder if you had 40 hours worth of work to do.

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Post ID: @lax+1hRybza3

Read a good book and go for a walk every day.

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Post ID: @gko+1hRybza3

A standing and walking desks are easy solutions.....your problem is motivation honestly...google is a thing...

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Post ID: @nhc+1hRybza3

Yeah this is very likely the same troll who is always pretending to be whatever group he's directing his vitriol toward that week. Whether it's vaccinated people claiming horrific side effects, the wokies speaking in his boomer stereotype of ebonics, or people working from home who are just too lazy to get anything done, it's always the same schtick.

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Post ID: @kup+1hRybza3

I'm so lazy and unfocused I wrote out this page-long list of corporate talking points against wfh out of the kindness of my heart.

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Post ID: @ghu+1hRybza3

I have actually been able to build a ton of personal relationships working from home and have went out to lunch with a few coworkers despite not going into the office. I work hard but always make time to talk personally with my coworkers. Going into a building would not change my relationship with any of my coworkers as I am in meetings most of the day anyways. I actually probably have as many “coworker friends” from companies I worked remotely at than places I have been in person and see no difference.

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Post ID: @fko+1hRybza3

"A lot of these problems are discipline problems — it’s hard to build and maintain discipline when you have no one to enforce it for you"

"I have solutions to a lot of these problems. I just don’t always have the mental strength to actually use the solutions"

OP, your problem isn't WFH, it's that you think someone else should create your discipline, instead of you.

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Post ID: @ejw+1hRybza3

There are a few valid points here

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Post ID: @ddg+1hRybza3

Probably not enough work to do.

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Post ID: @vtr+1hRybza3

Well in all fairness, most parts of W.F. are not cool either.

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Post ID: @qqm+1hRybza3

Op is a 1st class wimpp

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Post ID: @agd+1hRybza3

1st world problems

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