Thread regarding Oracle Corp. layoffs

Don't ruin your health for unattainable goals

This really resonated with me, I thought it deserved a thread of it's on for really good advice, which I personally will be taking:

The advice to do the absolute minimum while looking for another job is very good advice. I wish I had been told this 7 months ago.

While my sales were the best in my group through April, I knew my manager wanted me gone (only woman in my group, only one over 40). He put me on a PIP he admitted was unattainable, but I've never been one to give up on anything. I figured it would help if I could bring in some deals I was working and show the incremental new Cloud opportunities I was generating. I worked double time, to the point that I started having chest pains and was unable to sleep more than 2 hours per night due to stress. I was past my breaking point but kept pushing anyways.

It didn't matter much. My manager gave me advanced warning prior to June 1, a few hours before my log-in credentials were cut off. Do you know what I did then? I slept. And slept. And slept. 12 hours a day. I muted my phone as just the sound of a text or call made me jumpy. I would wake up and feel the strangest thing: no stress. Then I'd sleep some more. For 3 weeks I slept, catching up on almost 6 years of sleep deprivation. I was far from depressed; I was able to relax for the first time in years. I guess you could say I was finally taking the vacation time that I had denied myself every year before. But burnout is real and extreme burnout can be deadly.

When I knew my days were numbered, I had a choice; kill myself trying to improve my numbers with the chance that it would make a difference or spend all my time looking for another job and insure my failure in my current job. I chose poorly. The second my manager decided my time was up, my fate was sealed. But the additional stress I put on myself set me back mentally, emotionally and physically.

Get out. Either find a way to be riffed (with severance and rehirability) or find a job somewhere else. If you think your days are numbered, whether correctly or not, take your career into your own hands and make your own destiny. I didn't and I regret it.

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Post ID: @OP+OWZHyuo

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@OP:

I'm you but maybe five years away.

I have done what you did at a previous job and the problem was my manager had no freaking clue of what value I could bring. Yet every time I would think I would do just a bit more and things would change. They didn't. Eventually I quit and felt an immense sense of freedom. But Feeling wasted is perhaps the most common feeling I have had throughout my career.

After a few more years and some more jumps I joined an amazing team at Oracle. I had found empirically what many leaders advise - go after the perfect boss, not the perfect role.

I did find a good boss here who pushed me into more of what I could be. I'm a stereotypical unobtrusive techie but my boss was able to champion me and help me grow. At this point even I'm unsure if I'll survive, but that is because I'm not sure anyone in sca will.

My takeaway is - if possible find a good Co founder who can complement you (but not use u) and start your own thing. You are too smart/good to be wasted on big companies. Second best thing is find a boss who can champion u and stick to them. Third quit teams that don't value u as quickly as u can.

Last, build a network. I'm terrible at it, but it really works for someone like you who puts in the hours and cares about being good at your job.

Good luck

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Post ID: @tvt+OWZHyuo

OP: Good for ya. I am hoping you didn't turn in your TPS reports and remembered to take your red Swingline with you.

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Post ID: @hac+OWZHyuo

Do yourself a favor, own your own business and take control of your future. In this economy you have NO security with a big employer no matter your performance level.

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Post ID: @ehq+OWZHyuo

She's a ma'am not a sir.

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Post ID: @zdi+OWZHyuo

You Sir are an inspiration.

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Post ID: @tbp+OWZHyuo

Sorry, forgot to post OP reference: @OvAnH5u-qgyd

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