Cheer up Mi9q6Kg, this too will pass..
I am 37 years old, was promoted within the second year of joining C-Disco and LR'd in Sept'16
( just about 4 years career in C-Disco) and my salary median was way less than the midpoint..
I have nothing much to complain coz the offer(severance package + bonus) was too good to resist for getting rid of the toxic environment( inadequate management attention on the actual burning issues, internal politics led by the BU leader himself, resistance to change, basically there was no sense of value add by me other than repackaging the same old rotten stuff with new buzz words etc etc..)
The decision was partly self-influenced through my manager(heard..he too was LR'd last week) and could also be due to my reluctance in partnering with my new BU leader on unethical/unprofessional acts of bullying the vendors/blues, isolating/backstabbing targeted team members, pulling down good initiatives from his rival camp..etc etc to name a few!
This is what I did after accepting the severance deal:
Yes, I too experienced that 'looser', 'why me', 'hatred towards C-Disco'...emotions for few days but quickly realized the immediate need to move on
I went on a solo road trip for a week within the LR notice period(costed less than 3% of my LR package deal), channelized all my emotions towards securing a very difficult technical certification relevant to my skill set & in high market demand(needed 45 days of regular studies and costed about 5% of my LR package deal) , spent quality time with family and volunteered for an orphanage(in developing their web portal)
I was able to find a suitable job within a month of my certification(by then, had spent about 25% of my LR package deal including the road trip & certification)
My best buddies and family were of great support during this period
To summarize, believe in your self and keep moving forward(does not matter whether you run,walk or crawl..), realized that it is even more important for a family man to stay optimistic during these difficult times to minimize any sort of panic within family and set good examples.
If you don't like where you are, just move on...YOU are not a TREE..!!
Good Luck.