Firstly, I am a concern husband and as soon as I solicit some helpful advise here, I will delete my account and stop invading you ladies privacy. I know my wife take a lot of advice from this site, and she trust the information concerning our baby, so I too is seeking some advice.
The core of this writing is about the fact that I pee sitting down and now she don't trust me. Here is the back story. We recently had a 7 month old baby. I still find my wife extremely sexy and I am still madly in love with her. However she is a lot sensitive now, now that she still have on the baby wait. She love to have sex in the early morning while I like to do it before I go to bed. With the new taking up our time, let's just say sex is almost none existence, even though I am in the mood a lot. I am extremely patient with my wife, so if she is tired at bed time, sometimes I just help myself, if you know what I mean. Now twice, we woke up early in the morning to do the deed. The baby was in our bed so we had to go out in the living room area on the carpet. Now on two occasion, I am so happy to get some, I had an instant erection. However, at the same time, I so wanted to pee. On the first occasion we just started having sex, but I had to stop as I could not enjoy it as the pee sensation was too great. So i stop, went to the bathroom to pee but I was so erected, I had to sit down on the toilet. I further had to wait a little more for my pe--s valve to change from sex mode to pee mode. After a little it happened and I went back to make love to my wife, now enjoying all the sex sensations. On the second encounter, she woke me up and remembering what happened the first time, I went to the bathroom to pee while she rush into the living room as the baby was in our bed again. Again I was fully erected so I had to sit, uncomfortably trying not to make a mess. It took a little while as my pe--s valve was already in sex mood, and I had wait until pee was allowed to flow. By the time I went into the living room, so was upset and putting on her clothes. She keep asking why is it I keep going to the bathroom, before sex with her. What am I in there doing, suggesting I am either taking something, or rubbing on something in order to have sex with my wife. I try explaining all that I wrote here to her, as embarrassing as it is, but she would not listen. I am here confuse, as I appreciate her baby wait especially after seeing my child, but it is quite obvious she has unresolved issues. Please advise