When it comes to RTO:
Don’t bother even bringing these topics up because to the Big Kahuna, they are ignored. This is how it has been addressed for the last two years.
They don’t care about your 2 -4 hour commute. (They will ignore that altogether.)
They don’t care that you will threaten to quit. (They’ll just make some other schmoe double up or get a contractor.)
They don’t care that you have to pick little Hobart up from daycare by 6 pm. (They’ll refer you to the Onestop site for the help finding a caregiver.)
They don’t care if you have a disease and need life-saving infusions once per week and are sick after. (They will tell you to take sick time and FMLA - which they will deny.)
They don’t care that the cost of your commute is taking food off the table and that you won’t get a cost of living raise to cover it. (They’ll say to look at the commuter benefits - which only work in major cities.)
They don’t care that your Dad is going through kidney failure And his caregiver can’t get to your home before you have to leave for work. (They will say take caregiver leave, which won’t be enough to cover every day, or look at the find a caregiver benefit.)
They don’t care about why. (The only answer you will ever get is that we are better together.)
Seating? (“We are investing millions in bringing our offices back to where they should be.)
People talking on speakerphone on conference calls or standing around talking loudly in the office while you are trying to have a conversation with a client? (Take an PLE course on office etiquette.)
There. Saved you the trouble.