If only this was about catharsis.
Imagine trying to reason with the changes, make sense of it, be willing to experiment- once, twice and then thrice. Finally, one hopes the damage left behind will be acknowledged. Instead, it is ignored.
If you ask for help all the way to the CEO, and get none, how do you make sense of it again? You then see the millions in spoils while remembering that you weren’t given the grace, your judgment was overruled, you were given 100’s and told to feel grateful for a job, even when you were working beyond 2 or 3 or even 4 roles.
The dilemma is, how do you make sense of this to your team who you know is also in the same boat as you? You jump? Leave them in a lurch? You stay knowing you are all sinking? It doesn’t help the sea is rough, there aren’t as many avenues to escape. You tell yourself it’s just a job. Not worth being so invested in. But, you are. And you realise you are not the only one being ignored when you read such posts.
It took a “No, I will not move” from Rosa Parks for people to start to question the validity of expectations from her. These posts, among 1-1’s, skip meetings, town halls, sponsors, emails asking for help, have all been overlooked. Have Snow or Shan demonstrated any willingness to understand, engage and do better? When you see leadership collectively shutting their eyes to your pleas, do you reason tactfully?
The tact is not missing, the ethical standards and desire to do right by employees is. The values behind DE&I are.