I think this is a valid conversation to have. I'm on the fence about whether or not to continue working in oil and gas. It's going to become increasingly difficult to attract and retain young talent with few opportunities for growth.
China's population is expected to peak in just 4 years. Global population is now expected to peak in 2064. A lot of the growth in energy demand over the last couple decades has been driven by growth and industrialization in China. Their demand has grown by 7 MMbbl/d in 10 years.
China has come a long way in the last 20-30 years. With a declining population, and so much progress already made industrializing, it's hard to imagine much demand growth coming from there.
US oil consumption has barely increased compared to the late 70s. US consumption has only grown from about 18 to 20 MMboe/d in 30 years.
Demand growth is correlated with economic growth which is correlated with increasing labour force which of course comes with population growth (baby booms).
There's still expected growth from Africa in the coming decades, but it's not likely to offset the declines and stagnation in the rest of the industrialized world.
I think extraction technology and EVs are more a consequence of our situation than the cause.
Whether or not BP and Total are correct in their predictions, time will tell. I could see another spike in growth once economic activity picks up post-pandemic. I'm less optimistic about growth after the next 2 or 3 economic cycles.