nope, wrong. Even with your so-called "bailouts" - NY and Ca have consistently paid more taxes to federal govt than they receive from govt.
https://www.voanews.com/usa/all-about-america/which-us-states-get-more-they-give
https://www.usnews.com/news/best-states/articles/2020-05-15/some-states-like-new-york-send-billions-more-to-federal-government-than-they-get-back#:~:text=The%20majority%20of%20the%20money,excise%20taxes%20represent%20the%20rest.