When layoffs happen, everyone says “it’s business, not person” and “the decision was made above me (managers)”.
However, I find that after being laid off and reaching out to my colleagues who’re still employed by the company, it’s met with dead silence. In my particular case, I reached out to some of my supervisors asking if they’d write letters of recommendation for me, or at the very least write a LinkedIn recommendation and I can’t get any of them to respond—and this has been over the course of 6mo or so.
Is there some unspoken rule that when someone gets laid off to not talk to them b/c it’ll seem as if you didn’t agree w/ the layoff decision or what?