What would your commitment level, if your spouse announced to you ever six months, that they were thinking of divorce?
Would you stay in that relationship?
If you committed to put as much of your effort as possible into the relationship, could you be happy with the quality of your life?
No, Cisco is not your spouse; but you potentially could spend more time with Cisco than your spouse.
Sad where this is going.
I used to love life at Cisco. Too bad.
I still love my wife; lucky.
She paraphrased the above to me years ago, when I was living with worry for years, over and over, on getting LR'd. I eventually was.