It's about to get crazy. I would advise to uproot and move. Especially those that are young and can easily start a new chapter of your life. Even if BP merge goes thru, it will be such a bumpy road for you, and then in the end, only about 20% will continue employment with BP. Pick up and move on. Grass often times is greener on the other side. If you have been miserable with the unknown of Cabela's future, the uncertainty won't be resolved for another couple of years. Don't put yourself and your family through it, it isn't worth it. I got out, moved, found a different job in a different field. My marriage, kids, and the dynamics of my family and household has improved a great deal.
Complete agreement, @O1o18aV-4fya. If you have an alternative, now is the time to grab it.