In my early years at SAS, I learned what a software company should be. Our product was great, our company was small, everybody knew everybody, and we all pulled together. It truly was a Great Place to Work.
In later years, I was surprised to learn how abusive management can be. I never saw that in the early years — nor at the half dozen other companies where I worked. This level of toxicity is not normal. I suppose it gets worse as the money gets tighter.
Because of his manager, one of my friends needed a psychologist. Others left the company. I learned on this site that my mix of excellent and horrible managers had caused trauma bonding, and that greatly helped me to process what happened.
Like @1qwz+1w5dkFsG, I saw the explosive growth of data, the rising tide that lifted all boats except ours. Like @ovi+1w5dkFsG, one of those rising boats became my life raft 😊. I left SAS in sadness, for our missed opportunities, but grateful to end my career on a positive note.
I’ve learned the value of community, and decades-long friendships. At its best, this site is part of that community, a setting where we can all help each other, and I sure wish you all well.