Can anyone else relate? PSG 23 since 2020. No consumer debt… cars paid off, no credit card bills or any of that. Just a mortgage left. In 2020 housing (mortgage, property taxes, insurance, utilities, ) etc was 25% of gross income. Was maxing out all retirement with a stay ar home wife, no kids, and quite comfortable.
Now car insurance has tripled, home insurance has tripled, food prices has gone 2-3x. Haven’t gone on vacation since December 2022. Eat out rarely, etc. obviously raises haven’t kept up and my promotion to PSSG 24 didn’t go through again (2X in a row) and now like many here on the treat of a layoff. Fixed rate mortgage seems like only constant.
After having 2 kids… looks like wife will have to go back to work to be able to hurry up and payoff the mortgage (and fund the kids college accounts and our retirement… just to keep up with previous projections/lifestyle. Paying off the mortgage will only save ($1,200 per month in P&I). Feels like I would need a PSG 25 for the same margins as before.
I feel like I’m failing at life/career. Can anyone relate? Any advice?