Great forum, wish I’d found this earlier.
There’s a revolving door with each new expat in my department, they become flavor of the month, get tasked to do all kinds of menial stuff, get treated like a new pet dog, until they either drink the koolaid (see recent joiners), quit or start saying ‘no’.
In my case I pushed back with entirely positive and reasonable suggestions, and I’ve now been cut out of all the SVP/VP comms I used to be involved with! This was done secretly of course. I hear about things second or third hand that used to be told directly. I have also been quietly uninvited to management meetings, it’s like I’ve been put out to pasture. I see updates with my name next to yet i don’t even have a seat at the table! I still have more knowledge and experience than anyone else in the team and I am leading various programs, yet I don’t have a clue what is happening! Management speak as if I am in the know and when I push back with actual facts it makes them very uneasy. I had all of my direct reports moved without even being informed.
Is this the locals tactic on trying to get me to quit? Is it their way of saying FU. A way to make me fail?! Why do they behave like this? I’ve never seen this in 25 years of working in the industry in some pretty large firms. Why can’t they just say to my face ‘thanks for your input but we have other views..’. Why the backstabbing and nastiness?
Now I totally get why old timers get jaded and become defensive, it’s a survival mechanism.