I ran into an old friend whose career has stalled out a bit and I was flabbergasted how braindead he presented. I felt so bad for him, he’s miserable but enabled to not remove himself from a bad situation by EM and the pension, etc.
It is extremely sad what has happened to him. If you’re not successful, getting promotions and have work keeping you engaged then get out and don’t die the slow death of a corporate career buying time to retirement.