It has been interesting to me that HiPos have been pegged as one type of action. I’m a HiPo, but personally I’m the opposite of flashy and self aggrandizing. I’ve become known for “being too humble”. I’ve been told many times to have an email signature besides “- FirstName” and have all these things and I continuously take the opposite approach, which seems to have elevated me further. And not because I want to stand out, I just couldn’t care any less about my email signature or my photo on CareerConnect or that I pinged someone 8 CLs above me with “yo” or “hey”.
I think though a lot of people think being a HiPo is some secretive cult within the company. It really isn’t. You find out about information ahead of time, but nothing that you can do anything with. So what that I knew about a reorg a few months before others, that literally does not make a difference. Some HiPos are a-s kissers. Some are just good at their job. I know a few that fall into both categories. Many of the ones good at their job are definitely smarter than me, I’ve got no shame in admitting it they’re damn smart. Most of them have been quitting. Most of the a-s kissing ones flame out eventually. They are given bogus job titles and always are told that they just barely missed the exec CL bump for one reason or another. They mostly end up quitting to use their inflated title to land a good job somewhere else to continue the con.
Ultimately though, I’m quitting come January 3rd, because being a HiPo at a dying company quite literally is paying me 1/3 of what I can make elsewhere as an average employee. A HiPo at XOM really just isn’t something that great. I actually told my sponsor, and she said that it’s a catch 22 because if I didn’t quit, I clearly wasn’t smart enough to realize the writing is on the wall for young people and should not be moved up. But if I did quit, my bullshitometer was working well and I had a clue about corporate strategy and things and is someone who should be given even more off cycle promos.
And for most employees who aren’t HiPo, you’re not missing much and in the same boat. Quit, get paid better. You’ll make more than a HiPo at XOM and who knows maybe you’ll be whatever version of HiPo there is at your new company. But every second you stay, you’re proving you’re not smart and don’t deserve the promotion here. I know it doesn’t make much sense, but it also does.