@1nfq+17eg7ZiS I was the same way. I grew up in a home where a company was loyal to its employees and the employees loyal to the company. The change happened when I was in college and the stress it caused my dad I never knew. I started feeling it after being sold off to another company. I feared finding a job because when I looked while working I was not hunting for a job the same way as if I was not working. I pigeon holed myself and that was the mistake. I moved on to the public sector which is far different than the private sector. Work is appreciated, rewarded, and meaningful. There are some quirks to it, but there are no office politics and brown nosing like the private sector.
Luckily for me, I had the advantage of making a choice locally. Cisco, a big insurance company, another IT company, and public sector job all came about the same time. I knew I made the right choice when the managers at Cisco called me complaining that I did not accept their offer and that they wasted all that time on me, negotiating compensation and everything. In the end, I am making less annually, but I make more take home and for retirement. My insurance cost is 25% of that at Cisco and the other employer. I get a pension that will net me ~$2,500 per month when I retire after only 10 years. They have the same 401k match.
Life is good outside of the cutthroat, backstabbing, and lies from these large IT companies. Go enjoy it. If I had a recommendation for anyone about to be laid off, look into the railway IT industry. You could be amazed. I wish I would have gotten that job. It is about the only industry I would leave my current job for.